"they’re just a character"
gently takes your hand
leads you outside
lets go of your hand
goes back inside
locks the door
mouths “fuck you” from the window
Come to my blog and enter into a teenage boys mind
Recently, your mother and I were searching for an answer on Google. Halfway through entering the question, Google returned a list of the most popular searches in the world. Perched at the top of the list was “How to keep him interested.”
It startled me. I scanned several of the countless articles about how to be sexy and sexual, when to bring him a beer versus a sandwich, and the ways to make him feel smart and superior.
And I got angry.
Little One, it is not, has never been, and never will be your job to “keep him interested.”
Little One, your only task is to know deeply in your soul—in that unshakeable place that isn’t rattled by rejection and loss and ego—that you are worthy of interest. (If you can remember that everyone else is worthy of interest also, the battle of your life will be mostly won. But that is a letter for another day.)
If you can trust your worth in this way, you will be attractive in the most important sense of the word: you will attract a boy who is both capable of interest and who wants to spend his one life investing all of his interest in you.
Little One, I want to tell you about the boy who doesn’t need to be keptinterested, because he knows you are interesting:
I don’t care if he puts his elbows on the dinner table—as long as he puts his eyes on the way your nose scrunches when you smile. And then can’t stop looking.
I don’t care if he can’t play a bit of golf with me—as long as he can play with the children you give him and revel in all the glorious and frustrating ways they are just like you.
I don’t care if he doesn’t follow his wallet—as long as he follows his heart and it always leads him back to you.
I don’t care if he is strong—as long as he gives you the space to exercise the strength that is in your heart.
I couldn’t care less how he votes—as long as he wakes up every morning and daily elects you to a place of honor in your home and a place of reverence in his heart.
I don’t care about the color of his skin—as long as he paints the canvas of your lives with brushstrokes of patience, and sacrifice, and vulnerability, and tenderness.
I don’t care if he was raised in this religion or that religion or no religion—as long as he was raised to value the sacred and to know every moment of life, and every moment of life with you, is deeply sacred.
In the end, Little One, if you stumble across a man like that and he and I have nothing else in common, we will have the most important thing in common:
Because in the end, Little One, the only thing you should have to do to “keep him interested” is to be you.
Your eternally interested guy,
Happy International Women’s Day
those fans who ruin the whole fandom’s image
can you imagine if tumblr just decided to shut down and you see all these confused teenagers coming out of their house squinting at the sun
I saw an article online about surreal places to visit, the world is such a beautiful place and so I want to share a few of the photos with you. This first one is the Zhangye Danxia landform in Gansu, China.
Steven Spielberg behind the scenes of Jurassic Park (1993)
yeah steven looks almost human here
I don’t watch Supernatural and what
The fuck. Is going on.
Oh just your basic demon possession
hey i’m lillith and ur watchn disney channel
gUYS SHE’S ACTUALLY ON DISNEY CHANNEL
Disney channel better watch the fuck out
BUT WAIT, THERE’S MORE:
The girl who played Lela in the movie “Teen Beach Movie” played the angel Hael (who goes a bit crazy):
And Jessie’s dad (in the show Jessie) wAS DICK FUCKING ROMAN
YOU FORGOT THE BEST ONE
DEZ FROM AUSTIN AND ALLY
IS THAT KID WHO WISHED HE COULD BE INVISIBLE SO HE COULD SPY ON NAKED WOMEN
also he was that one kid who called fred lame in scooby doo but that’s irrelevant
but guys don’t you remember
Carey Martin from The Suite Life Of Zack And Cody
IS SHERIFF JODY MILLS
but don’t forget one of the most overlooked ones
the dad on that dumbass show dog with a blog
was the director on the supernatural episode ‘hollywood babylon’
Was everyone from Disney Chanel like ‘Let’s go over to Supernatural.”
Yes. Yes they were…
I CAN’T BELIEVE YOU ALL FORGOT ABOUT ADAM
WHAT DO U CALL A DOG THATS A MAGICIAN
when you listen to a song for the first time aND YOU JUST KNOW